“Here’s the deal: I don’t want to know how crappy your life is until I’ve learned why I should care about you. It’s a turn-off. This applies to complaints about jobs, friends, personal drama, money, and especially the fact that other women don’t seem to want you. One of the least attractive things a guy can do is whine about how “women all want XYZ, but I’m a genuine provider of ABC and they don’t care”. We don’t care. At that point, I’m not compelled to prove your statement wrong, I’m compelled to learn from the other women who are clearly not present, and recognize that if nobody else thinks you’re worth their time, why should I invest?”
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